Dear Future Queen,
First, I must say you are beautiful. I know your family tells you this all the time but I want you to remember this in those moments that you feel your ugliest. When you feel like no one looks at you like they do your friends. When you feel huge in comparison to your classmates. And especially when you feel passed over at dances and parties. Your beauty is one that others will grow to appreciate and you will grow in its ownership. But the most important aspect of this beauty is that it radiates from the inside out. That quiet and gentle spirit of yours is of great worth in God's sight. No matter how you twist your hair or what kind of jewelry you may put on, it will pale in comparison to your spirit.
Now there will be moments when you may feel solitary. Especially after you decide to love Christ the way He loves you. You will feel set apart. Your group of friends will shrink and at times you will look around and see no one else at your immediate side. But in this time you will grow. As you feel surrounded by silence, God will be ministering to your heart. So spend that quiet time wisely. You don't always have to find a crowd to be around. There are some things that He must plant in you when He has you all to Himself.
Finally, just know that your latter will be greater. What you are going through right now is not the end. No matter how large the challenge may seem, how painful the heartbreak may be, or how long the wait may feel, greater is coming. You will make it through every obstacle that comes your way, whether it be degrees, boys, or jobs. There is a crown waiting on you.
A Lady crowned Queen